International Female Orgasm Day

• This day has been inspiring women to be aware of their own bodies and their right to sexual pleasure since 2006. It originated in Brazil, where they wanted to celebrate the female orgasm and remind women’s partners to think not only about their own satisfaction, but also that of the woman in their life.

• Take some time for yourself and enjoy the day to the fullest; speak openly about sex and female pleasure. Some men have no idea about it because it’s so much easier for them to orgasm.

• The global statistics are stark – just a third of women experience orgasms. 

Our tip! Everything is possible, if you want it. And having an orgasm is about nothing more than consistent practice. Get into bed and, if it’s something you like, watch some porn for stimulation. Don’t feel comfortable touching yourself with your fingers? Try a clitoral stimulator. Achieving your first clitoral orgasm isn’t easy – it takes practice and patience, and can take up to half an hour. The stimulator will make it far easier.

During vaginal intercourse, women find it more difficult to reach orgasm; it’s much easier for us with manual or oral clitoral stimulation. Our sensitive bodies simply require more attention and time cuddling. Unfortunately, some men don’t understand it even after making love countless times, and have no idea that there is more than one way to orgasm.

So take your orgasm into your own hands, both figuratively and literally. Take the time to educate your partner so that he finally starts thinking about your pleasure and climax. Or indulge yourself – our toys are always ready and never need persuading. And don’t forget that every celebration deserves a gift. So why not a new sex toy?

You may think this is not for you. But the truth is that most women are reserved, settle for less and resign themselves to not exploring anything new. Don’t be like them; we’re rooting for you!