Do you want handcuffs, a vibrating ring, or a whole set of couples' sex toys? Find out which toys are ideal for couple play and get advice from a sex therapist on how to use them for mutual arousal and satisfaction.
Only playing with yourself? Not this time. We have discovered erotic aids for you that you can enjoy as a couple. Sex therapist Denisa Palečková will advise you on which toys to choose and how and what to use them for, so that you and your partner can experience maximum moments of pleasure together. Busy hands are happy hands, so put shame aside and let's get to it!
Erotic handcuffs are by far one of the most popular couples' toys. "They are a kind of invitation to surrender control, which plays a very important role in erotic play. One leads and the other surrenders...," suggests sex therapist Denisa Palečková and adds that handcuffs, which are soft on the surface and equipped with fine feathers, can also be used for very pleasant erotic teasing, which will create the right atmosphere of sexual desire in your bedroom.
Another couple's aid that is becoming increasingly popular among partners is the cock ring. "It pinches the penis at its root, preventing sufficient blood flow and thus promoting erections that are longer and stronger," explains our sex therapist. Some cock rings have an elongated tip and even vibrate, so they can stimulate both partners at the same time.
However, one very interesting fact is that this erotic toy will also support your partner's health. "The penis has different parts that are related to the male organs. At the root is the kidney area, upwards it continues with the liver and pancreas. The head of the penis is then connected to the lung area and the very tip of the penis is related to the heart area," explains our expert. Therefore, according to her, any stimulation of the penis will also support male health, specifically the kidney area in case of a cock ring.
If you have an irresistible craving for a new exciting adventure, get yourself a whole box packed with erotic toys for couples. What can you discover in it? "For example, a feather teaser designed to caress the areas with the most delicate skin on the body, such as the neck, wrists, back of the knees or groin," says Denisa Palečková.
There is also a vibrating ring in the set and also, a vibrating clitoral stimulator. “The clitoris is highly sensitive, so often just a gentle touch for a short time is enough to avoid overstimulation. Otherwise, it can become numb," warns our expert.
In the box you may also find a remote control vibrating egg. "The partner can then play with the intensity with which he stimulates the woman inside her vagina," says our sex therapist. As an added bonus, the erotic set can also include dice with pictures of different sexual positions or room names. Depending on what the dice tell you, you then choose the position and place where you and your loved one will make love.
"The dice will help you with some variability, which is very important for a relationship. Because usually we tend to repeat things - making love in the same place and position all the time. With dice you will experience something new and jump out of that relationship routine we often find ourselves in," acknowledges sex expert Denisa Palečková.
So what can you do to ensure that sex with a long-term partner continues to be fun even after all these years? "Just don't rely on meeting at home in the evening full of passionate energy, but plan your intimate moments together in a completely pragmatic way," urges sex therapist Palečková. According to her, spontaneous intimacy between long-term partners is rare. "And especially if you have children, if you take care of the household and if you go to work..." she says.
In intimate moments together, you should then try to be open to sex play and constantly cultivate your love life. In this way, sex will constantly entertain you, bringing you moments of unbridled passion, but also a pleasant tenderness and mutual intimacy that will strengthen your bond as partners.
And what are your experiences? Don't let anything or anyone take away your intimate moments together! Sex toys for couples will help you revive them in a wonderful way. Check out our video too.